Vote NO On Prop 8. Here’s Why…
I take all rights seriously in America, even the right to have an opinion that I may not agree with. I do not approve of lying, cheating, stealing, violence, etc to reach a goal.
That being said, I still find it surprising how shocked “Yes on 8″ supporters are when they encounter a negative response from a “No on 8″ supporter. We are not just voting to ban alcohol on a beach, or provide funding to a school. We are voting to take away rights from millions of people. If you are voting Yes on 8, then you most likely aren’t someone who is going to be losing their rights. You are only someone who is willing to take them. But as it has been pointed out, both sides are doing things they should not do. A friend of mine had a No on 8 sign in his car and someone spray painted “fagit” all over his car. The fact that it was completely misspelled provided a bit of comic relief, but the pain and anger is still prevalent.
If your argument is that you would lose the right to your religious beliefs if 8 does not pass, that has already been proven to be false, so there is no need to try to pull that one out of your hat again. I say to you to keep reading up on the subject.
Civil rights is not something that should be voted upon. Historically, has there ever been a time when people voted to extend rights to people that did not have them? We usually rely on all branches of government to move our country forward. Equality usually has to be awarded through the removal of unfair laws. Prop 8 will only try to add discriminatory language to a document that already states it cannot discriminate.
Aside from writing discriminatory language into our state Constitution, it seems to be a large violation of the separation of church and state. Religious organizations are driving the entire Yes on 8 campaign. Most of the money is coming from these groups, much of it out of state. Voters are making decisions based off of religious teachings, and are not clearly considering what the laws of our country grant all of us. This proposition is unnecessary. It is a waste of money to promote and to have to fight against. An estimated $70 million has already been raised by both sides. And Prop 8 is only harming the relationships of Californians by pitting them against one another, generating hate and violence, and singling out a very large group of citizens to make us feel like we are lesser than everyone else. Not all religious groups support the Prop and not all members within these religious groups support the prop. But the truth is that if it passes, religious organizations would have been successful in changing our constitution. For all of the people pushing and funding Yes on 8 that are from outside of the state, then we have also allowed people from other states to change our constitution.
It’s rare that we have to end up voting in a legitimate way on a Proposition that should not have ever even gotten onto the ballot. A proposition that does not seek to empower it’s citizens or move our society forward. A proposition that is supported by religious organizations that should be separated from the law completely, and opposed by the majority of the political spectrum, California’s largest employers, the Arts and even medical professionals.
Yes on 8 seeks to make voters vote on a visceral reaction to child innocence by saying it will hurt children, when 300 Pediatricians from across the state have come together to oppose Prop 8 and testify that what a child needs are loving parents, and all studies have shown children with same-sex parents are just as healthy as children in “traditional” families. Children benefit from the security of having legal protection for their families through the security of marriage. If you want to protect the tens of thousands of children across California alone that have same-sex parents, then voting NO on Prop 8 will keep their families strong.
I am sure that many of you have already made up your mind on how you feel about Prop 8. I just hope that you have based your decisions off of the laws of our land with respect not only to our constitution, but also to millions of your family, friends, co-workers and even those that you do not know. If you are someone on this list that does not have a personal connection with someone who is gay, ask yourself if someone you love turns out to be gay, do you want them to live in a world where they are equal to you? Or do you want them to live in a world that they have to fight to be treated with respect and dignity? One where they have to fight to be considered worthy of marriage or worthy of being a parent?
A vote of Yes on Prop 8 will help to perpetuate the negative view and hatred shown towards gay people for years and years to come. I’ve read many blog postings over the past weeks - more than I should have - and I have seen that the majority of people voting Yes on 8 are taking that position due to a belief that gay people are immoral and not deserving of civil equality. It has been really upsetting to peel back a layer of not only Californians but also the American people in general to see what lies beneath on this issue.
A vote of No on Prop 8 will help move our country towards an equality that has been spoken of since the Declaration of Independence, but we have not yet achieved. It will also send a clear message to Californians and our children that discrimination is wrong and that disliking people due to things they cannot change is wrong. And hopefully that you should not legislate current public opinion on social issues. Future generations, I have faith, will eventually achieve this goal, even if they have to strike down such a constitutional amendment. I would just like to think that our generation is the one that is up to challenge of full equality. A country of unity and free from discrimination can only be a stronger country.

